A year later my friend became stuck in the same boat. She was worried and came to me for help about
where to turn. She too had tried the VA
route and got nowhere. I told her about
the Vocational Rehabilitation program and gave her the 1-800 number. From here she was able to qualify and finish
out her BS degree. I felt really good
that I was able to find out that information and then relay that help to my
friend to help her as well. I was angry at first
that this information was not easier to find.
Education is such a huge part of the military that I was surprised I had
to bend over backwards to gain the information.
Other areas that were hard for me to gain access to were buying a first
time home as a veteran, employment assistance, and disability assistance. In fact after I spent months applying for my
VA loan to buy my first home, I was told it was good to go. Only to get a call from my bank a month later
saying if I didn’t take action the loan would be dropped. Take action, what action!? According to the VA you have to be married to
obtain the loan. No one told me
that. A call to a judge and 2 hours
later I was officially a Mrs., and all for a house! Although I love being an advocate, I would
never advise getting married to buy a home ever again! Ha ha….
"People who get nostalgic about childhood were obviously never children."
-Bill Watterson, creator of Calvin and Hobbes
-Bill Watterson, creator of Calvin and Hobbes
Friday, July 6, 2012
Personal Advocacy Reflection
I was personally able to be an educational advocate for my
friend who I was in the military with. I
had previously had a struggle finding resources because when I exited the
military I wasn’t given a “proper” civilian transition briefing. I had no idea what resources were available
to me or how to continue school with my G.I. Bill. Calling the VA only made matters worse due to
switching between call centers, untrained personnel, and law changes due to the
war. I finally had to spend loads of
time researching and figuring things out on my own. When my G.I. Bill ran out I felt
trapped. I had 2 more classes till I was
to graduate with my BS degree and no way to pay for it. Again, I had to really hit the pavement to
find out where to go, gaining bits and pieces of information as I went. I finally had the answers with the Vocational
Rehabilitation Center and was then able to qualify for benefits to extend the
G.I. Bill out to finish the 2 classes I had left.
Friday, June 22, 2012
When I Reflect About My Collegial, Professional Learning Community
Learning in a collegial environment always provides a great
way for people from different areas to get together and share ideas. I have really enjoyed being able to learn the
opinions of other professionals in all aspects of early childhood. Even colleagues who are not currently a part
of the early childhood profession bring in outside resources and information
which help to ask and answer new questions.
I also enjoy learning with a group of polite and caring
individuals. That always makes for a
pleasant learning environment. I also
noticed that interacting and responding in online courses with other
professionals, sets me up professionally in manners of speaking and being
cordial in my daily working life.
I have definitely learned to research into systems to see
how they function and work. To see who
they work with and how these organizations come together. I have learned in this class in particular
that one organization does more than meets the eye or more than we read
about. We can affect the way policies
are written and we can advocate for policy change. I will take with me the cost of what changing
a life means.
Sunday, June 10, 2012
My hypothetical family situation....
My hypothetical family situation involves a two parent
household, both native English speakers, and one 2 ½ year old son. The mother
quit her job just before he was born and started going to school full time when
he was several months old. The father is
military and they moved to where they are stationed shortly after his birth. They have not made many friends. The mother and father have been talking about
having another child. That is until
their son was diagnosed with autism recently. Now they are worried another child might be diagnosed with autism as well. Their son had not been talking yet and the parents brought this up to his
pediatrician at his periodic well visit.
Their son was given a series of tests and diagnosed as autistic on the spectrum,
but more testing would need to be done to find out more information. The parents wanted to know more information at the time but was told a report would be sent to them. They felt devastated, shocked, alone, and as if all their dreams for their son had been changed. The mother had plans to finish school and go
back to working full time but she now has to find the help her son needs to
make sure he is taken care of. Her drive
to the Children’s Development Center on the local military base is now done once
a week for her son to visit with a speech therapist, an occupational
coordinator, and a service coordinator. The
purpose of these professionals is to help her son develop to the best of his
ability and also so she can learn some techniques to use at home. His speech has improved but with autism there
are many techniques that need to be tried before finding out the correct path
of action.
Saturday, June 2, 2012
The Political Will to Improve Early Childhood Systems
I think there are a few policies right now that are in
effect to be changed or implemented that I read about this week. In my area there are actually parents who are
talking with local school districts about better means of transportation rules
and regulations for children in grade 3 and under. Parents are worried about distances from
school bus stops to the children’s homes and what may happen in between that
distance when children do not have an adult to walk with them. Right now there is little being done unless
the bus driver wants to stop at individual houses which may make for a longer
bus ride, but a safer one. I am all for
this alternative.
These past weeks I was able to learn that kindergarten is
not required in all states and that some parents do not see the benefits of
it. This baffled me as I was under the
impression that since kindergarten was part of the “school system” whether
public or private, that it was therefore a requirement. Although school systems vary between each
state in regards to what requirements need to be met for teacher
qualifications, the age to get into kindergarten, the requirements for
graduation, etc., I believe that including kindergarten in the mainstream of
things should be a norm. It’s a transition
phase that some kids really need in order to get into the flow of how structured
classrooms work.
What really appealed to me this week were the funding
strategies and also the inclusion hopes.
Kindergarten is the first in line to the actual school path which
children will (hopefully) follow for the next 12-13 years. Maybe more!
Funding for kindergarten right
now is done through the government as well as tax payers. Some states have issued full day kindergarten
and most haven’t but some have offered it as a pay if you want to attend type
of thing. These funding options are
again excluding those who cannot afford to send their child to all day
kindergarten versus the “free” half day.
This excluding of students may also be a continuation of those who were
not able to attend preschool either. Education
is so important to the future of our society, economy, future adults… where
down the road was this seen as serious, but not taken seriously??
Tuesday, May 15, 2012
Parent, Family, and Community Engagement
I reviewed three videos from the ECLKC (Early Childhood
Learning & Knowledge Center) website that focused on Parent and Family
Involvement. The three videos and
commentary I watched was a father named Gil Vigil, a father of children who
attended Head Start, Diana Loyer, a grandmother of two granddaughters that
attended Head Start, and Hilda Marshall, a great-grandmother who spoke about
her granddaughter being in Head Start.
These three different perspectives of the opportunities and
quality that Head Start brings to children and families were
inspirational. Although Head Start is
based on providing care, education, and health to low income families, this
program should be available to all children in the sense that it not only helps
the children succeed but it also helps the parents grow as well. Often parents are so busy with working and
trying to support the family that they are unable to spend time taking their
children to school and helping them along their educational path. Through Head Start parent and family involvement
is highly encouraged and parents can serve on special councils which make
policies for the Head Start Community.
The parents are becoming more involved in their children’s future and
therefore the children are seeing that their family is proud of them and this
encourages them to keep going to do better.
I believe that hearing the stories of success and happiness
from these families allows early childhood professionals to know that striving
to change lives really means something to those who we work so hard for. Helping children and families, and advocating
for their rights and needs, goes a long way in the future of children’s
lives. It isn’t just about what we do
today or throughout one school year or age, but the effect that takes over long
from now. Gil Vigil in the video spoke
about how his daughter and son were in Head Start and are now college
graduates. The gratitude in his words
showed how proud he was of his children’s success, and that is really all
parents want for their kids- is the chance for success.
*Note* I grew up with a single mother in the low income
financial bracket. Although my mother
worked hard she made time to connect with me and ask questions about my
life. I went to school with a girl who
was from a high income family, giving her every luxury she wanted, however they
were never available to her emotionally.
Although her higher income lifestyle provided her food and health, she
was missing a key element of inner fulfillment.
Programs like Head Start would have been great for her emotional
development and would have impacted her future in a more positive way than what
ended up happening. Sometimes I look
back and think if I knew then what I know now……
Early Childhood Learning and Knowledge Center. (ECLKC). Head
Start: Parent and Family Involvement. Parent
and Family Stories. Retrieved from http://eclkc.ohs.acf.hhs.gov/hslc/hs/about/stories/pfs
Thursday, May 10, 2012
Quality Programs for ALL Children
Although the knowledge base is growing in regards to the
importance of early education and care, I still personally feel the need for
the word to get out to even more people is necessary for the growth and
development of all children. I find that
some families agree that babies are not really doing much and that the social
interaction is not needed, nor is the verbal communication because babies
cannot talk. However research has proven
to us time and time again of the importance of all interaction types. It is only the knowing of this research that
is stopping many children from receiving quality care.
I believe public opinion is that children are our future and
that our children will someday be running this world, literally! The public could very well know this and
understand the concept fully, but to know what to do about it to help children succeed
may be far off. Many parents work full
time and are engulfed in the process which brings in their income, and those
who are not parents may not even consider what is happening to children. The factors that need to be addressed for
young children may only be sitting on back burners to those who are aware but
feel they cannot do anything.
The multimedia presentation this week showed us how in the
Nursery School strand times changed through the point and factors for use of
the schools. In the 1920’s these schools
were used as advice stations for “child-rearing” which soon expanded into
research facilities “where researchers and educators could study and foster
children’s social and emotional enrichment” (Laureate Education, Inc.). The research gathered from parent-child
relationships that were being viewed branched off into ideas about the
education and care that fosters healthy development in children. Amazing to know that this is where the needs
were saw and started to be met.
I hope public opinion changes with more and more information
spread through media and by voice. The
importance of education and quality care in the early childhood years is
literally life changing. No matter the
economic situation of the family, all children deserve the chance to be exposed
to quality care. All parents should also
be given the correct information about the early years of their children. I would hope that with continued change in
the advancement of education and care, young children’s rights will become
among the top priorities throughout our government and our policies. Since our children are our future and how we
start them off in life determines a lot about who they will become I really
wonder why teachers, early childhood professionals, and care givers are not
paid as if they are doing something important??
The related implications that I can see from the early years
becoming more important are that more jobs are made available for the highly
important positions that teaching and caring for young children are. That finally this field is noted with
professionalism. In turn all children
and families can benefit (hopefully) due to the increase in jobs in this
field.
Laureate Education, Inc. (n.d.). Multimedia Film. Historical
Overview of Early Childhood Systems. Retrieved from Walden University website https://class.waldenu.edu/webapps/portal/frameset.jsp?tab_tab_group_id=_2_1&url=%2Fwebapps%2Fblackboard%2Fexecute%2Flauncher%3Ftype%3DCourse%26id%3D_552753_1%26url%3D
Sunday, May 6, 2012
What Resonates With You About Early Childhood Public Policy and Advocacy?
The Blog Assignment for this week consists of three parts:
Part 2: Why are advocates essential in the early childhood field? Explain why you believe becoming a skilled and confident advocate is crucial for early childhood professionals and for the field.
Part 1: Why did you
choose this specialization? Share what resonates with you about this
specialization. Consider the relationship between your passion and aspirations
related to public policy and advocacy and what you hope to accomplish with
regard to promoting the well-being of children, families, and the early
childhood field.
I’ve
learned not to assume I know what all encompasses in public policy and advocacy
through my coursework with Walden. Every
time I thought I knew a term or a concept, boy was I wrong. There were so many more things to learn,
avenues to go down, opinions to take in, and aspects of myself that changed my
thoughts about the topic. So to answer
why I chose this specialization (public policy and advocacy) I would have to
answer based off of what I think it all means right now. To simply
fight and be a voice to be heard FOR children. Whether that means standing up for something
that is being plagued against them, or where their voice isn’t even being
considered, to understand the policies that surround children’s rights today
and then to advocate for their rights. Most
importantly I want to help be a voice for them.
When my
mother and father were going through a custody battle in court I remember having
to go and sit in a nearby conference room where I could still hear all that was
going on. Only a few times I testified
but I was warned only to answer the questions that I was asked. Being just a child, there was so much I wanted
to say, that I wanted to get out, but also being just a child no one ever asked
or gave me that right. That is what I remember
vividly from that court battle, among others things that I’d rather not
share. The fact that no one ever asked
me what I wanted, needed, felt, experienced, anything. That experience left a trail of memories with
me that led me to want to help others speak out. If I could find the correct position, I would
want to be that person working in the court system with children who help them
be a voice in a scared, dark, and lonely place.
Part 2: Why are advocates essential in the early childhood field? Explain why you believe becoming a skilled and confident advocate is crucial for early childhood professionals and for the field.
I believe
that advocates of all areas are crucial for the early childhood field because
sometimes children can’t speak for themselves or know what is coming. Children are care free and innocent, they
want to play and make friends, and make up words and worlds. Children don’t necessarily need to keep track
of where their school’s funding comes from, they only know that they love going
to school. Children aren’t able to build
their own playgrounds, but they sure know that playing on them is fun and having
one close to home is great. Children become
used to abuse at home and think that their guardians are their protectors when
sometimes they are not. Let the people
who have dedicated themselves to early childhood worry about the resources, funding,
and steps to take to protect children by making things happen. And let the children be children with no
worries.
Part 3: What do you hope to learn about public policy and
advocacy? Articulate at least three goals related to this specialization at
this point in your coursework.
I hope
to learn more about policies, and who makes them, who gets involved, why are
they written, chosen, and who benefits from them more. I also hope to learn about becoming an
advocate. I have so many ideas about
what advocacy is, I would like to have solid answers.
Three goals:
1)
Learn about advocacy in the capacity that I feel
comfortable explaining the definition to someone else.
2)
Learn more about policies and just who makes
them.
3)
Be on track to the confidence needed to fight
for someone much smaller than me.
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